Why can't I make friends in Australia

Make friends in Australia

Australia is one of the most popular countries for backpackers looking for adventure. However, many backpackers are away from home for the first time and on their own, alone without family and friends from home. Yasemin, a 23 year old backpacker, talks about how she coped with this situation and made friends in Australia. She also gives some valuable tips to other backpackers ...

Making friends in Australia is important

It is very important to find friends in Australia, otherwise you will feel very lonely and strong here Homesickness can develop. This would of course be very inconvenient because you want to enjoy your time here and make the most of it. Even if it is sometimes nice to be alone, it is usually even nicer to share all of your experiences with someone ...

Find friends in Australia at the hostel

Unfortunately, in my experience, it is not that easy to make friends in Australia, especially not as a backpacker. At least not the kind of friends you could keep company for long periods of time. This is mainly due to the nature of backpacking. In the hostel, for example, it is relative easy to get connected, as most other backpackers also like to be sociable. Unfortunately, most of them leave their hostel relatively quickly to move on. Then you have to get to know new people again, from whom you part again relatively quickly. Of course it's great and you get to know a lot of people who you also come to appreciate, but you rarely find friends who keep you company for a longer period of time.

Find friends in Australia in a shared flat

My tip would therefore be: If you have found a job in a city and plan to stay for several weeks, move into a shared apartment, i.e. a shared house or apartment, and spend your stay there. Most people who live in such houses have permanent jobs, stay in one place for long periods of time and are often Australians or permanent residents. This makes it easier to build friendships.

I actually always move into shared apartments and have already met a lot of great people, some of whom have also become very good friends of mine. The really great thing is that the roommates are in such a community to a kind of small family become. For example, I often go on trips to national parks or to the beach with my current roommates. We go camping, barbecuing and much more together. Many of my roommates also have a car. This is very useful for excursions.

The only thing you have to consider is whether your landlord has one Minimum length of residence demands. For example, it could be that according to the rental agreement you have to live in the shared apartment for at least 6, 8 or 10 weeks in order to get your deposit back in full. Whether the option of sharing a flat is an option for you depends heavily on your own wishes and needs.

Make friends at work in Australia

Aside from living in a shared apartment, I've also made friends at work. Here, however, I made the experience that, depending on the job, it can be difficult to maintain contact outside of the workplace. Many people are not backpackers and have private contacts with whom they do something outside of work. But sometimes you just have to take the first step yourself and ask your colleagues if you would like to have a coffee with one of them. You rarely get to hear a no, because most of them do Australians super nice people are. It is important that you are not too shy and actively seek contact. Then making friends shouldn't be a problem at all!

So as you can see it's not that hard to make friends in Australia. Be open, talk to people and you will see that you will not be alone for long.